How to Fall in Love with Your Body Again... Lumps, Bumps & All (Even in Your 40s & Beyond!)
You’ve spent years battling your body, chasing the “perfect” weight, and feeling frustrated when nothing changes.
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If you’re over 40 and still struggling with body confidence, you’re not alone. Maybe you avoid mirrors, hide behind baggy clothes, or tell yourself, I’ll feel better when I lose the weight. But deep down, you’re tired of the self-criticism and waiting to feel good in your own skin.
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The truth? Weight loss won’t fix body image. It’s not your body that’s the problem... it’s how you’ve been taught to see it. It’s time to change that.Â

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Hey there, Beautiful!
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I’m Melissa Wilkes, and if there’s one thing I know, it’s what it feels like to battle with your body. To pick apart every flaw in the mirror. To feel like no matter how much weight you lose, it’s never enough. To think that confidence is waiting for you on the other side of a goal weight.
I spent years trapped in that cycle. Counting every calorie, over-exercising, obsessing over my body… and still feeling like I wasn’t there yet. And then one day, it hit me.. it was never about the number on the scale. It was about the story I was telling myself about my body.
That’s when everything changed.
For the last decade, I’ve helped women, especially those over 40, break free from the toxic cycle of dieting, self-criticism, and waiting to feel worthy. Because let’s be real: weight loss doesn’t fix body confidence. And if you’ve been told otherwise, no wonder you feel stuck.
Here’s the truth: You don’t need a new diet. You need a new way of thinking about your body.
And that’s exactly what I do, I help women stop fighting their bodies and start working with them. Through nutrition, mindset coaching, and a whole lot of real talk, I teach women how to nourish, move, and care for themselves in a way that actually feels good.
Because you deserve to feel confident now. Not "when you lose 5 kilos." Not "when you tone up." Now.
So if you’re ready to stop hating your body and start living in it with confidence.. I’m here for you. Let’s do this together. 💖
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